A Water-Cooler Moment on the Show
In the latest episode of the celebrity talk-show Two Much with Kajol and Twinkle (hosted by Kajol and Twinkle Khanna), what began as a lighthearted conversation quickly turned into a viral moment. During the chat, Kajol addressed Farah Khan, saying, “And you are relevant till today, and at least you believe that you are.”
Farah’s response was calm, measured yet firm:
“Yeah, see I don’t like that word Kajol, because I feel every person is relevant in some way or the other, even if you’re not working.”
Kajol attempted to clarify: “I mean that when you feel that you are relevant.” Farah, however, pressed on:
“So I always felt I’m relevant to my children or to my husband or to my mom or you know even I think that’s a bad word somehow, no? It puts down people who are not going out and working actively.”
Why the Comment Sparked a Reaction
On the surface, Kajol’s remark may have seemed harmless recognising Farah’s presence in the industry. But the subtext struck a nerve: suggesting that relevance is something to be earned or measured by active work in the public sphere. Farah’s rebuttal turned the lens inward, questioning the very notion that one’s worth or relevance is contingent on public productivity.
In an era where the definitions of success and relevance are expanding especially for women balancing multiple roles—the exchange resonated widely. Farah’s point: even roles behind the scenes, roles of caregiving or non-public work, carry relevance. Her refusal to accept the framing of “relevance” purely as external acknowledgement triggered a broader conversation.
Netizens Rally Behind Farah
Social media went abuzz shortly after the clip circulated. Users praised Farah for the dignity and clarity she brought to the moment. One post read:
“So happy that Farah gave it back to Kajol! Both of them are very annoying and condescending. Finally, they get the taste of their own medicine.”
Other comments included:
- “Farah you are so thoughtful. You understand the power a word carries. Everywhere you go and everyone you meet is not only touched but elevated by your pure intentions.”
- “She’s right… you don’t need to be relevant to the outside world as long as you’re happy doing what you do, even if it’s just being a mom and a housemaker. It’s a choice.”
The online sentiment largely turned from critique of Kajol’s framing to celebration of Farah’s dignity. For many, it wasn’t just about a celebrity exchange—it tapped into everyday realities of relevance, dignity and value beyond the spotlight.
Beyond the Moment: What It Reflects
1. Relevance vs Visibility
Farah’s response cuts to the heart of a wider debate: is being “relevant” the same as being visible? In creative industries especially, oftentimes behind-the-scenes figures (directors, choreographers, scriptwriters) are less visible but no less relevant. Farah reminded the conversation that relevance doesn’t always demand public acknowledgment.
2. Gendered Expectations in Film and Beyond
Farah also pointed out the gendered baggage:
“I think the stupid thing is when people box a director into genders. I find it taking feminism back because I’m a director, and my gender has nothing to do with it.”
By connecting the “relevance” remark to wider industry attitudes about roles, careers, and gender expectations, Farah opened up a larger lens—one that resonates beyond Bollywood.
3. Communication & Intent
In public dialogue, the choice of words—and underlying assumptions matter. Kajol’s “you are relevant till today” appears innocuous, but Farah’s critique shows how it can imply “only if you continue to be in the public eye are you relevant”. Her point: relevance is not conditional.
What Happens Next for the Show & the Stars
For the talk show, this episode adds to already-mounting headlines. The same show recently faced widespread backlash after hosts Kajol and Twinkle compared emotional infidelity as worse than physical infidelity.
Public response may influence future tone of the programme:
- Editing & Moderation: With greater scrutiny, future conversations may become more carefully moderated.
- Guest-Dynamics Shift: Guests may respond more cautiously or demand clearer framing of questions and remarks.
- Brand/Image Reassessment: For Kajol and Twinkle, the balancing act of candour vs critique may shift if audience sentiment remains critical.
- Farah’s Positioning: For Farah Khan, the exchange further reinforces her image grounded, articulate, unafraid of standing up for values even when facing established peers.
A Broader Takeaway
This event is more than celebrity gossip it’s a reflection of changing norms and conversations about worth, work, and recognition. In workplaces and households alike, many face the quiet question: “Am I relevant?” Farah’s implicit answer: yes, if you believe you are, and yes, even if not publicly recognized.
From an industry with high visibility on fame and success, the fact that this moment struck a chord speaks volumes. It underscores the need for public platforms to consider not just what is said, but how it is saidand the impact it has on everyday audiences.
In an exchange where one star made a remark about another’s relevance, what emerged instead was a commentary on relevance itself. Farah Khan’s response clear, poised, unapologetic became a focal point for a much bigger discussion.
For Kajol and Twinkle, this might be a moment of reassessment. For Farah, it reinforced a voice many admire. For audiences, it became a mirror: relevance isn’t just about staying in the spotlight it’s about value, intent, presence, and purpose.
As the clip travels across social media, one takeaway stands out: words matter. How we frame others’ worth can echo far beyond the moment. And when someone calls your relevance into question sometimes the best reply is not loud, but well-considered. Farah Khan chose that route and the world listened.
